by Teri Bybee
For many high-achieving women, the idea of taking risks can feel daunting. After all, much of our success is built on careful planning, precision, and a commitment to excellence. But what if embracing risk wasn’t about jeopardizing what we’ve built? What if it was about creating space for even greater growth, joy, and authenticity?
This is the essence of joyful risk: reframing risk as an opportunity to expand rather than a threat to avoid.
Why High-Achieving Women Avoid Risk
High achievers often operate within a framework of high expectations—both self-imposed and external. For women, societal pressures compound the challenge. We’re often expected to balance ambition with caution, leaving little room for bold moves.
Add to this the fear of failure, which is often magnified for those who feel their accomplishments are under constant scrutiny. The result? Many high-achieving women play it safe, avoiding the very risks that could propel them to the next level.
But avoiding risk has its own cost: it can lead to stagnation, unfulfilled potential, and a disconnection from our authentic selves.
Reframing Risk as Joyful
The first step in embracing risk is to shift the narrative. Risk isn’t inherently negative. In fact, it’s often a sign that we’re stepping outside our comfort zones—where real growth happens.
- Focus on curiosity instead of fear. Ask, “What’s possible if I take this leap?” rather than, “What if I fail?”
- Recognize that failure is part of success. Many of the most successful people have a trail of failed attempts behind them, each one a stepping stone to greatness.
- See risk as alignment. The bold moves we make often bring us closer to who we truly are and what we truly want.
Three Myths About Risk—Debunked
- Risk leads to failure.
Failure is not the opposite of success; it’s often a prerequisite. Each misstep offers lessons that bring us closer to our goals. - Staying safe ensures stability.
Comfort zones can feel secure, but they often limit potential. Growth requires stretching beyond what feels easy. - High achievers can’t afford the risk.
Taking calculated risks often enhances your career and personal life, making you more innovative, resilient, and fulfilled.
Practical Tips for Taking Joyful Risks
- Start small. Stretch your comfort zone with manageable risks, like initiating a difficult conversation or trying a new skill.
- Adopt a growth mindset. Focus on what you’ll learn, not just the outcome. Every step—successful or not—builds resilience and confidence.
- Build a supportive network. Surround yourself with people who encourage boldness and celebrate your courage, whether it leads to triumph or a valuable lesson.
Finding Joy in the Process
One of the most important lessons in risk-taking is this: joy isn’t just in the outcome; it’s in the journey. Risk can spark creativity, foster self-discovery, and remind us of our capacity to adapt and grow.
Practicing mindfulness can help you savor the process of risk-taking. Celebrate your courage in each moment, knowing that every step forward—no matter how small—is an act of bravery.
A Challenge for You
What’s one risk you’ve been avoiding? Maybe it’s pursuing a passion project, having a difficult conversation, or exploring a new career path. Whatever it is, take one small step toward it this week.
Joyful risk isn’t about recklessness—it’s about living in alignment with your values and dreams. It’s about trusting yourself to navigate the unknown and finding fulfillment in the process.
You’ve already achieved so much by playing it safe. Imagine what could happen if you embraced risk with joy.
About the Author
Teri Bybee is a passionate advocate for women’s empowerment. Dedicated to helping high-achieving women break free from perfectionism, Teri encourages others to embrace risk as a path to growth and joy. In her role as the visionary behind Women Who Risk, she has introduced “Unlocking Your Inner Courageous Leader” – a powerful, complimentary resource leveraging energy psychology to transform mindsets for leadership and empowerment. Access this invaluable tool for personal growth at http://www.womenwhorisk.com/unlock.